And so, yesterday afternoon when I found myself alone for the first time in days, I turned on the heater, popped a hot water-bottle over my womb, and began to indulge in my addictive novel.

How long do you spend giving pleasure to your body before you touch your clit when you're masturbating?
Did you know the female body takes around 40 minutes to fully engorge…

I loved pleasure - but my lack of education about it mean I believed it came from sources outside of myself.

From shower heads, jets, from a mans finger or tongue and eventually from sex.

As I hone in on these stories, chipping away at them like marble, carefully carving out new stories, I have felt things in my external world start to shift…

I do this because bringing sisters / siblings together genuinely fills up my soul.

So I let go of my ego's need to sell out and found that I was excited to have a more intimate event - a different kind of medicine.

Yesterday as I drove away from Confest I had the polarising experience of deep joy and simultaneous grief.

From teaching magic and teaching someone how to have an orgasm…
You see, facilitation is an embodied and psychological craft.

What I have learnt on my journey is, like a tree with its many branches all threading out to create one grand canopy.

For some, using the jade egg will be the missing piece you needed to finally experience a summer in your sexuality.

I am learning in this life, like the daily rising and setting of the sun- if you want something you need to be consistent.

Worthiness is an inside job that is assisted by the external world you call in, and surround yourself with.

Suddenly with this Adonis, I was in a scene from the movies, a scene part of me had been longing for, yearning for, craving…

He slipped his tongue into my mouth and suddenly I was dripping.

Spontaneous VS responsive arousal is something I wish everyone knew about.

“I guess I am kinky.” I proclaimed to my friends after I’d just had hot wax dripped over my entire body for 40 minutes.

On Sunday as I pulled up at my father's house I had tears streaming down my face.

I had been listening to Layla Martins podcast with Alison Armstrong called “How to bring out the best in men”

It compelled me to share what my father's day was like for me.

I first heard about Layla Martin in a ‘Wild Woman Workshop’ at Livelinge festival in The Netherlands 2018.The workshop had spoken to every part of me. It covered sisterhood, vulberability, empowerment, sexuality and unleashing the inner wild within us.

You don’t owe your body. You own your body.

I, like many female bodied people, have a coding that has lived in my body, in my pussy.