Pleasure and the Dark Emotions

Have you ever had a crygasm? What about a angergasm? Or a frustragrasm?

Sounds funny hey…well I'm not joking.

Here's a more relatable experience, have you ever had break up sex?

Well then you're half way to knowing what I'm talking about.

Break up sex is so well known because it is, in many ways, an unexpectedly HOT experience. 

How can it be that breaking up with a lover and then jumping back on / into them feels so good?

Well the reason is that you are (finally) allowing the spectrum of your emotions into your pleasure life. 

Humans loveee to complicate and pigeon hole our experiences. 
Pleasure has been pigeon-holed into an experience that must be had ONLY when we are in a light emotion: 
happiness, joy, bliss etc. 

But what about all those dark emotions 
(notice how I don't call them bad?)
There are so so many emotions and ALL of them can be felt as pleasure.

Emotions after all are just sensations in the body - we are not our emotions we are the experiencer of them. Just as we are not our pleasure, we are the experiencer of it. And so my love you can have your emotional cake and get pleasure from it too! 

I know what you're thinking…how the hell do I do it?
Well, like the exploration of your own pleasure… pleasure and the dark emotions takes practice! 

It takes accepting, allowing, welcoming, and surrendering.
Accepting that the dark emotion is here.
Allowing yourself to fully feel it.
Welcoming pleasure to begin to mingle with the dark emotion.
And surrendering to your bodies natural impulses.

Then, when you're least expecting it a cry/anger/frustration-gasm just may arrive!

This can be done with a partner and it can be done alone. 

I will be speaking more on pleasure and the dark emotions, and demonstrating how its done (with clothes on) in my Facebook group today - if you're not already in it - you'd better get your ass in there!!!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/radiantrisingcommunity/