It is proven that who we self identify as, is who we become.

I’m lazy.
I could never get an X job.
I'll always be alone.
I don’t look good in those types of clothes.
I’m fat.
I’m a loser.
I’m not good enough.
I deserve flakey friends.

For a time, from childhood till young adulthood, these identities are mostly programmed into us by society, our families and the institutes we reside in - school / medical / religious systems.

However, there comes a time when we have the ability, right and very good reason to CHOOSE who we are in this world.

Yet our indoctrination into our self limiting beliefs is usually so insidious that we go on self governing ourselves to experience life from these outdated identities.

If you could be anyone who would you be?

A Queen.

A Queen who is sovereign ruler over her body, her life, her relationships, her environment, her future.

A Queen who knows she must make hard choices to take care of herself in the long run.

A Queen who can see that certain friends and relationships are ready to be renounced in order to best serve her energy.

A Queen who has no doubt in her unique abilities and puts herself out there for all to see.

A Queen who wears her body like the finest of garments. Proud of every curve and scar.

Today I invite you to listen to all the things you internally say that you are, and that you are not.

Listen to those voices that say:
-“Don’t tell her she’s beautiful, that's awkward. You’re not confident enough to do that.”

-“Just let him sit on the couch, he’s had a long day, you can make dinner again. You don’t really deserve help anyway.”

-“So they ghosted me, that’s okay, I knew I was an idiot when I said XYZ. You’ll always be single”

-“Of course she’s doing well in her art business, it’s because her work is unique. You’ll never have as much talent.”

Would you like to keep looping these underlying beliefs in your life?

Allowing them to dictate your choices, your experiences, your future? Your potential?

It is NOT an easy journey to decide that you will undo years of unconscious conditioning, but it is a NECESSARY one if you want to make change.

And that change doesn’t need to be made alone.

When I decided to strip away the self limiting identities I’d been labelled with and carried as my own I did not do it alone. I was supported every step of the way, and when it was time to go it alone, the voice of my inner Queen had been awoken and was whispering to me:

Yes, yes do it! We can do it! I am you! You are a QUEEN!

How could your life change if you chose the identity of a Queen?