I have been finding it extremely difficult to make the time, space, and energy for my own self pleasure.

 

Do you want the truth?

 

While I've been inviting women and femmes like you to join Self Pleasure Arts, while I've been sharing how important it is to cultivate a relationship with self pleasure…

 

I've actually been having a really hard time making space for my own self pleasure.

 

Life has been damn busy.

 

My work and social calendar is demanding so much of me, especially in the evenings.

 

Not many people know this, but I'm secretly a Grandma who loves going to bed early.

 

Yet, because I've been working late I find that once I reach the end of the day…

 

I don't want to light my candles, I don't want to give myself a breast massage, I don't want to do mirror work and gaze at myself lovingly….

 

All I want to do is scroll on my phone, tuck myself under my fleece sheets with a hot water bottle and zone the fuck out.

 

And you wanna know the other more vulnerable truth of why I'm finding it hard to self pleasure at the moment?

 

The truth is, I've been struggling with being single.

 

My heart and my pussy are yearning to be in partnership. There's a part of me that feels truly ripped off that I still have to give myself my own pleasure!

 

It wasn't until last Friday that I realised what was going on…

 

I am being served my own medicine by the Universe.

You see in Self Pleasure arts I specifically teach how important pleasure is - NOT how easy it is.

 

I teach people that pleasure is always the first thing to fall off our to-do lists, even though it is the most important thing to truly nurture our nervous system and inner radiance.

 

I teach people to beware to the demands and distractions of life that will easily have you turning away from pleasure, deprioritising it, opting for the 'easier option' like scrolling.

 

Imagine deciding you want to go for a hike.

 

On arrival you see two sign posts. One says: easy walk around the carpark.

 

The other says: challenging, multi hour trek through the bush.

 

It is easier to walk around the car park.

To go to bed every night without having connected to your body.

 

To feel the pain and frustration of wishing someone would turn you on and satisfy your needs for intimacy and pleasure.

 

But, it's only when you choose the longer, more challenging hike…

 

🌸When you wake up early and give yourself that breast massage

🌸When right before sleep you run a bath and lovingly moisturise yourself.

🌸When in the middle of the work day you close your bedroom door and grab out your pleasure wands for a sneaky session

 

That's when you find yourself in new and beautiful places, that's when you are nourished by vistas and canopies of pleasure.

 

That's when you are fully recharged and rewarded for your efforts.

 

I don't want to pretend to you that choosing pleasure is easy.

 

I don't want to pretend to you that sometimes it feels fucking unfair

 

But this my love is our lives.

 

We are living it now.

 

We have been given the gift of a body, the perfect canvas to make art with our lives.

 

From this Wednesday, I have the honour of guiding a group of women / sisters / vulva-bodied babes into two months of self pleasure.

 

If you are ready to choose the longer hike, to choose a life of pleasure, then dive on in.

 

You can join us today by paying in full or with a payment plan for as little as $244.48

 

Will you join us?

 

If you're not sure if this program is the right fit for you, you can book a free discovery call with me here

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