I love it when new clients come to me and says they want to be a Sex Goddess/ Goddexx.

Like fuck yes, who doesn’t want to be a sex Goddess/xx?

To become a sex Goddess/xx, first we need to first have a look at what they even are…

Let’s start with Goddess - the etymology of the word goddess is a combination of the Germanic word God with the Latinate -ess suffix.

AKA Goddess = Female God.

A Goddexx is a deity who is non-gendered, gender neutral, and/or non-binary.

There was once a time when Goddess’ were worshiped and prayed to as commonly as gods.

A Goddess is a being who is held as the highest realisation of a certain embodiment. They are held in reverence, worshipped, prayed too, and called upon for whatever it is you are seeking, desiring, moving towards in your life.

Aphrodite, Hedone and Eos may be names that you have heard. They were Goddess’of sex, lust and desire - their names are more commonly known because of their Greek origins, but there are 100’s of sexually embodied Goddesses /Goddexx’s

I could go into a big spiel about where the Goddess went, why we only hear about Gods and saints, unless we’re in India, but that’s not what the lesson is about today.

If you want to be a sex Goddess/xx, what you want to do is align your desire, actions and being with the traits and qualities of a chosen Goddess/xx.

STEP ONE

The first thing you might like to do is go down a little rabbit hole of the different Goddess/xx that are out there, and find one that you feel drawn to. One that resonates with your personality, one that epitomises who you desire to be as a sexual person.

It could be ancient Goddess/xx, or it could be people on instagram who you feel embody the type of sex Goddess/xx energy you are after.

That’s one route you could take.

Another is to realise that THE GODDESS/XX is an all encompassing figure.

Likening it to God vs Gods - there are many different ancient Gods and there is the one ‘God’ - whatever you believe God to mean / be.
It's the figure who represents the creation of all life.

The same goes for The Goddess/xx - it is possible to align yourself with the one vision of Goddess/xxly nature.

Meaning rather than become fixated on researching different Goddess/xx you could just align yourself with THE Goddess/xx.

STEP TWO

Step one was about conceptual understanding, we’re humans and we really like to know the why of things, it helps our brain to relax and surrender. But the real work is in the DOING, the BEING.

The embodiment.

If you want to be a sex Goddess/xx you need practice sitting down in stillness. Going into meditation and inviting the Goddess/xx to enter you.

Feel your spine straighten, your neck elongate, imagine and experience that this energy of Goddess/xx has actually enerted you.

How do you  breathe?
How do you move?
How do you speak?
What are you wearing?
How do you touch yourself?
How do you connect to pleasure?
What will you do now that the Goddess/xx is in you....?

Okay Okay, I know some of you are into it. And some of you are going “WTF. What do you mean let a Goddess/xx enter me?”

We live in a society that expects, and celebrates self depreciation, degradation and admonishment. We are taught that to love yourself, to think highly of yourself, to brag and worship yourselfs makes you:
Self obsessed
Arrogant
A bitch
Up ourselves
Etc.

But the thing is. Like the all encompassing God / Goddess / Goddexx - we ourselves are everything within one being.

We bithces, we are lovers, we are warriors, we are Queens, we are cheats, we are frauds, we are cheerleaders, we are jokers, we are poets, we are children, we are teachers, we are goddess and goddexx’s and more.

We know how to be every faucet of humanity. We just get encouraged to be certain versions of ourselves more than others.

We feel more comfortable with certain versions of ourselves than others.

So when you sit down to embody the Goddess/xx, it might feel a bit strange at first - but that’s okay! It probably felt weird to Queen Elizabeth when she first became the Queen.

But she wore the clothes, had her advisors, we walked and talked like a Queen, and eventually she just was one.

If you want to be a sex Goddess/xx, then my love - you’ve already taken the first step to becoming one!

And if you want to take another GIANT Goddess/xxly step into becoming one.

If you want a cheerleader and advisor for how to really embody and become a sex Goddess/xx - then I invite you to join my epic Self Pleasure Arts six week course.

I will be taking a group of divine Goddess and Goddexx’s on a journey into their most awakened self pleasuring divinity.

Sometimes to be the Goddess/xx we seek, we need to surround ourselves with other Goddess/xx, and be guided by a teacher who already embodies what we seek.

That’s what I did to get where I am today, and I am so excited to hold out my hand, and welcome you into the land of sex Goddess and Goddexx’s.

XXXX
The Pussy Queen